Thursday, September 27, 2012

IN THE LADIES ROOM!

As some of you may or may not know. I have a little part time job that I do on Saturday's. Now please don't judge me or think what the heck!!! I'm a bathroom attendant at a local restaurant/Club. No I'm not partying at a club and NO I'm not being disrespected. In some ways you can call me a councilor, a mother away from home, a friend, and a disciplinarian. I make great tips and hang out with some pretty special ladies. Which brings to me sharing some of my fun with you. Once a week I will have a post called in the ladies room that will be a story or stories that went on in the ladies room!

I last worked on Saturday September 22nd - My girls where expecting me as usual. I have a few that the minute they see me they place a tip my jar and enjoy some of the girly things I have for them. It was pretty busy. One young lady was there with her husband when she saw all the fun things I had she played like a little girl playing in her moms makeup.


I have one lady that works at Macy's - she's a doll who works really hard they recently cut her hours (but she always leaves a tip) she has several family members living in her home so they share the living expenses. She and some friends were there with friends from Austin. One of her friends and now my friend love to brag on how she don't need a man, how she take care of her mother and herself. I'm sure she's been really hurt by a man at some point in her life. She's a nice person and I'm sure that deep down she would love to have the gentle support of a man. I see her defense mechanism is always telling me she's just fine without a man. Now I love that she takes care of her mother.

As the night goes on well let's see I watched the alcohol move in and take control. Sometimes from being insecure, some from being hurt by someone a lover or a friend, some just found out they have cancer, some lost their husbands at such a young age to some illness, some work 2 or 3 jobs and this was the one night they could get out and have some fun. And of course there are some that drink to get drunk. But one thing for sure everyone has a reason to do what they do. And who and I to judge.

As my tip jar fills up I see a young lady hugging the trash can oh my what a shame the alcohol got the best of her. But lucky for her she has an awesome friend that stayed by her side then took her home. Lucky for me that incident got me a 20 tip! Thank you for being so generous!

Then there is the lady that comes in in silence not requiring much assistance at all. When she realizes that I work there she slips me a $20 tip and just say thanks!

Now this last $20 tip lets see how shall I say this ladies it's not necessary to fight over me. I know that some ladies will use my products and not leave a tip (you know who you are) - I don't like the name calling and please NO FIGHTING! We are all GODS children. There is NO need to mark each others home land. You can be from Mexico or born here in US I love you all the same. I had four ladies 2 from each mentioned country because the US ladies didn't feel that I wasn't getting my due tips from the others ladies some ugly name calling started. After I pulled each of them aside and shared how disappointed I was in each of them and that it needed to stop. They soon stopped and the the US ladies left me a $20 tip. Thanks ladies you're the best. This is in NO way a reflection on the other ladies a lot of what I do comes from my love to hang out with you ladies and have fun yes I LOVE the tips but I understand that you want always have the cash and if I'm patient there will be a next time.

At 2:30 I'm exhausted and ready to go home once again I've had a wild and crazy night!


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